If there's more goods and services in a country, then there's more wealth to go around. In the extreme case, where one person controls all the wealth in a country, then a large GDP does no good. However, most countries have a distribution of wealth that's not so obviously unfair (the USA is getting worse instead of better, due to increasing restrictions on the market).
Suppose you're a software engineer in the USA. There's lots of established companies and startups competing for your services. This guarantees that salaries are decent. Suppose you're a software engineer living in Nebraska. If you're serious about your career, you'll probably move to California or elsewhere for a better job. In the USA, moving from Nebraska to California is no problem. Moving from Vietnam to the USA is hard or impossible.
Suppose you're a software engineer in Vietnam. There aren't that many businesses. There aren't many startups. Your employment opportunities are limited.
Even if you're a skilled software engineer in Vietnam, it's hard for you to start your own business or work for someone else who's starting a business.
Suppose I go to the store in the USA. There's lots of different products on the shelves, guaranteeing a certain degree of price and quality.
Suppose I go to the store in Vietnam. There aren't many choices. Some things are expensive or unavailable.
The advantage living in the USA is that it's easier to start a business here. More new businesses means more new wealth is being created. This translates to a higher standard of living for everyone. Competition among employers keeps wages high. Competition among sellers keeps prices down.
That's how it works in theory. Conditions in the USA are deteriorating. The USA is becoming more Vietnam-like instead of Vietnam becoming more USA-like.
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