Hello my fellow "Austrians". Its been a while and I have done a lot before I just came back here. What I want to discuss with you is very off-topic (hence it being posted in general), but I think I will enjoy discussing/venting with people who are more inclined toward using logic.
Heres the deal. I live in Quebec (Canada). There is this ad on Tv that states that 1 out of 3 women will be sexually assaulted at least once in their life. Then the ad goes on to explain that the victims can be your mother, sister, aunt and so on and that the agressor can be your brother, father.... (you get the picture).
I never really had a problem with acknowledging the high probability that much more women are victims of sexual assault than men. I had a problem with the number. I felt like it wasn't right. I found a video on youtube from a show that went on Tv that explained that the 1/3 statistic has been looken into by a group of people who used the law that grants the right to access the data collected and used by public organizations. The statistic is nowhere to be found. The closest thing to 1/3 is a survey of OPINION made 10 years ago or so asking people how they felt about sexual assault and how many victims they estimated would exist. I also learned that for the government here, sexual assault is made up of "rape" as well as unwanted flirting, bad joke, a wink, a stare and whisling. Also, if a woman has sex with a man and regrets it LATER, this can be considered as rape (yes, it doesn't make sense, I know).
So when the ad was posted on a forum I visit from time to time, I just had to point out that the numbers are probably wrong and that the ad in itself makes it look like women are defenceless against everything while men are predators and that I felt wrongly discriminated against. I also pointed out that the ad gives absolutely no advices on where to seek help and is probably just a video made to make the population panic and get more subsidies (yes, the whole thing was produced with governmental subsidies to begin with).
I always made it very clear that I condemn rape and that jail sentences here are too short and soft. I even donate my own money to groups helping victims of rape because I had some friends who were raped and I felt like that as an individual I had to do a little something to help out. Now, I am the bad guy because I supposedly made many rape victims who read my posts cry because of how inhumane my critique of lies really is. I also learned that to lie is just fine as long as one has noble goals and that the number of women raped is probably around 50% or even higher (no need to prove it, just numbers thrown in the air).
My summary of my issues with this situation:
-Made up numbers.
-Throwing together very different types of action and using the label "sexual assault" as a generic term for them.
-Using the generic term as a way to show inflated statistics.
-Double standards.
-Not giving any advices nor help.
-Showing that women are victims, men are predators.
-Being told that lying is just fine when the goal sounds okay.
-Using tax money to pit a group against another (covertly).
Am I just insane or an heartless *** to discuss these issues with people showing up the ad? Am I missing something here given that most people agree that I am wrong in doing so? Should I just throw logic out of the window? I mean I thought at least some adults would agree with me, but they are the ones who whine the most!
/Venting off
I'm not really expecting any response in particular. Just your opinion on this maybe. If some here understand French, do say so and I'll link you to the ads.