GilesStratton:
Isn't it essentially the same "argument" statists often use? That anarchists are all naive because in the real world we need leaders or rulers or whatever term they want to use.
More or less, yes; it's in this aspect that I view Statism itself a largely conservative system, since it constantly denies all other alternatives via monopoly, coercion, puts "realism" as the reason why it's required in the first place, & deems it absurd that rulers (in this case, oligarchies & collectives competing for the levers of power) aren't required to keep things together.
Essentially, it seeks to perpetuate itself, and therefore, seeks to perpetuate stasis within the an inherently dynamic society, of inherently dynamic beings (humans).
I subsequently find this ironic, since that would also mean finding liberals conservative for sticking with such an out-dated* system, as well. Doubly when you consider the conservative portion of socialism (oligarchical rule) that many liberals (although not all) hold so deal.
*I say out-dated in the sense it's been proven to not work correctly & should be abandoned in favor of more efficient means such as the market, which the internet has provided an apt model for; not out-dated in the sense that it needs to be "updated"

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Of course, at this point, I think it would just be "too much work" for some to think of otherwise. The lack of accountability & responsibility bred in a society ruled by "representative democracy" sure doesn't help that situation either.
An example of libertarians appealing to "reason" & "realism", would be the amount of rationalizing over Bob Barr at TLP, which is mainly due to libertarians wanting to appear "reasonable" to their Statist "counter-parts" by not being consistent (and subsequently, more radical), for the sake of attracting support from the political mainstream.
If Statism is "reality", as in, static & forever existing, incapable of not being replaced by something considerably better (but would require responsibility & accountability), as some make it out to be, then I'd rather join Major Tom in orbit, while those below snub thousands of years of biological & social evolution.
Last I recall, we eventually got out of the stone-age; eventually we will get out of Statism, whether via some critical mass of it's own doing, or by tireless efforts at chipping away at propaganda, misconceptions of alternatives, and the fear of the unknown.