Sphairon:
Socialists often argue that too many parents don't care about their
offspring's education and therefore would simply choose the cheapest
service avaible, regardless of quality (or one-sidedly indoctrinate
their children with "radical" ideas, for that matter). So, they
conclude, government must step in to guarantee the basic and
"wholesome" education you're talking about for everybody. "No child
left behind".
This is, historically, very inaccurate. Some few parents do, indeed, not value education for their children. (With the quality of public education in the USA today, one can see their point.) However, if public education were the answer to this problem, it would not have been going steadily downhill for the past 100 years. Levels of literacy were higher before government-sponsored basic education was available than they are now. Acknowledge the problem of uncaring or indifferent parents, point out that it's a very small segment of the population, point out that public education doesn't correct that problem anyway, and point out that home-schooled children usually outperform public-schooled children educationally, even without the benefit of economies of scale. The literature on school quality is pretty easy to find - there's a ton of it out there. E. D. Hirsch, Jr. is particularly good at showing why the public system isn't working, with no focus on statist/libertarian issues - his focus is entirely education. His _The Schools We Need & Why We Don't Have Them_ is a good place to start.
The reason why we need 12 years of government training is quickly
blamed on the "complexity of today's world". So, even if Ben Franklin
became a genius by self-studying while helping his candlemaking father,
this is "18th century logic" (just like the right to keep and bear
arms, we see a pattern here) and inapplicable today.
Agree with them - an education is extremely important, so people must be free to try for the best they can arrange for their children. Nobody is going to effectively claim that parents will take their children out of effective schools to put them into ineffective schools - if they try, ask for actual examples. The proposed voucher system is opposed because current educators are afraid of level-field competition, and rightly so. If vouchers won't release children from the requirement (wrong, but harder to argue) that they attend school, and parents aren't likely to take children from good schools to enroll them intentionally in bad schools, then the opponents of the voucher system are proving your point - the current system is bad, and they know it - but their goal is to continue the system, regardless of how poorly it is educating the children.
Statism has been tried, and is failing, in education - statistics are overwhelming and easy to find. Prior to statist schools, levels of education were much higher than they are today. My grandfather never finished High School - but, in a one-room 'little red schoolhouse' (it was really red, too), he was taught more Latin than I know. We're going downhill, and supporting the system that is demonstrably failing is to prevent today's children from getting the education they'll need to have. In private schools, at least some of them will have a chance of a good education, rather than condemning them all to a poor education in the name of "equality".
Speaking of equality, ask your socialist friends where other factors are equal - point out that it may be an emotionally worthy goal, but it's not being achieved anywhere, no matter how hard anyone tries.
They may comment on how racist education is, using racially-separated test results as proof. Ask them if the current system favors Asian-Americans, since they outperform any other racial group.
Explaining the benefits of a free market to a socialist is like trying to sell pagan idols to a Southern Baptist. Both have a very firm belief that you must be of the devil.
This is, indeed, taught in school. Good luck to you.
Danno
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