HeroicLife: How is it not a curse?
That is up to her, not me and not you.
Think of the child as you would think of chocolate or sex: you really can not say you like it until you try it.
If more and more people glorify pregnant
women -- the way we commonly glorify people who are suddenly $10,000,000
richer, for example -- maybe unplanned pregnancies will not be
considered a curse.
That woman may live in a world where unmarried pregnancy is considered evil and thus, she will feel cursed. On
the other hand, she may live in a world where ANY pregnancy is treated
like a glorious and rare event and thus, she will feel blessed.
HeroicLife: If a woman wants a child, she can get pregnant voluntarily. If she becomes pregnant by rape against her will, then the potential child is automatically a loss, not a gain of a value to her.
It seems to me like you are making an
ex post /
ex ante error in logic when you arrive at that conclusion. There is no reason to assume you can compare how the woman values the pregnancy
1) AFTER she is already pregnant
to
2) BEFORE when she is not pregnant
I believe you are also making a different type of error by assuming you can make a summation of value and attributing that to the woman.
HeroicLife: The child as much may be a value, but she has already balanced the potential benefits and costs of a child by choosing not to become pregnant voluntarily.
No. She has balanced things from different starting points.
For all we know, this woman wants to get pregnant and can not find a willing man to impregnate her. For all we know, her friends probably thought she was a loser who would never ever get laid. Now, she earned respect.
I realize these are despicable statements but they are technically possible. I beg that nobody thinks that I am callously dismissing the horror that is rape. That is not my intention. My point is that we can not assume anything about her valuations.
For all we know, her rapist could turn around and say: "Sorry, lady, but I am extremely desparate to be a father and no woman likes me. How about I give you $10,000,000 if you carry the child to term? I will even send you on a 9 month vacation cruise throughout the globe where you can bask in the sunshine and have servants fan you while feeding you grapes etc. etc. etc."
For all we know, pregnancy can actually be a euphoric and inspirational experience which is only felt at the point of conception.
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Look, I am not trying to impose a positive obligation on a woman who is pregnant and I am not denying that the rape is an assault/violation of the non-aggression principle. I am just trying to encourage an attitude change, a preference or a new axiom just like we all try to encourage people to accept the non-aggression principle. None of those preferences can be proven.
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